"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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B-Lemond

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This is a list of Affirmations that I put together.

Print this out and read it ALOUD everyday! It will make a SIGNIFICANT difference in a short amount of time.
I won't explain why affirmations work. If you wish to know then you could do a search. Onto the Affirmations:
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- The more I like myself the more others like themselves.

- I am fully competent and capable in everything that I decide to
do.

- I am highly creative, intelligent, attractive, energetic, sexy,
witty, smart, healthy, wealthy and wise.

- I love myself unconditionally just as I am.

- I am the only person that I need.

- I feel comfortable around other people.

- Other people feel comfortable around me and enjoy my presence.

- I am fun and exciting to be with because I always have a good
time.

- I am comfortable talking to women.

- I am comfortable touching women.

- Women to whom I pay attention are extremely lucky - I am what
women want.

- I acknowledge my sexuality.

- I have to look my best all the time.

- Women must prove themselves worthy of my time and attention to
receive it.

- I make no excuses for myself as a man, and I'm INNOCENT, not guilty.

- Every week of my life is an exciting, action-packed adventure.

- There is no woman alive who can resist my charm and charisma.

- My confidence is unstoppable.

- I have the power and the passion to make my life what I will.

- I act.  I don't re-act.

- I control my emotions every minute of the day.

- I am not intimidated by anyone.

- I act swiftly to get what I want from life.  He who hesitates is lost.

- Fear is the mind-killer.  I will use my fear as power.

- I work every day to improve myself, learn, and become more powerful.

- I live my life by my own code of honor.

- My actions mirror my beliefs - congruently.

- I'm a powerful communicator.

- I never apologize for myself.

- I make no excuses for my desires as a man.

- I move through this world without apology.

- I like to satisfy women.

- I don't need any particular woman, I am not needy.

- Women are abundant.

- I do not supplicate to women because they find it unattractive.

- Rejection is a good thing. The more I get rejected, the more I will get laid.

- I learn something every time. Every rejection becomes a brick in my palace.

- I do not dwell in the past.

- The past can not be relived, good or bad.

- I have a wide range of options in how I choose to react to other people. The choice is mine.

- I talk slow ...

- I do not care what others think ...

- I do not move or turn around because of others ...

- People have to work for my attention / interest ...

- I ignore those who are not worthy of my attention ...

- I move slowly, relaxed and controlled ...

- I stand straight, poised and spread in a relaxed way ..

- I speak in a deep, relaxed tone ...

- I remain alpha regardless of what crisis comes my way ...

- I never supplicate to others ...

- I never qualifie myself to others ...

- I get more credit for minor actions than betas ...

- I have the ultimative comfort in my own skin...

- I am the leader ...

- I attract others with my frames ...
... because I am Alpha

- I am not afraid to touch women, because women like to be touched by me.

- My sex drive is MY sex drive. MY desires are all that matter. MY satisfaction is what counts. I do not care what other people think of MY sex drive.

- I am a Don Juan
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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PRiSM92289

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I'm not here to ask how they work, but for some reason I felt a little cheesy reading some of them outloud..I will continue to use them though.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I once read some literature by RJ and he suggests for increasing the effectiveness of affirmations: read the affirmations in one order, while at the same time playing the affirmations on a tape recorder in a different order. So the tape recorder is always playing a different affirmation than the one you're reading. I think he called it double-induction and said it's more powerful that simply reading them. Anyone have experience doing it that way?
 

NeW2TheGame

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Umm...does the first point make sense?

- The more I like myself the more others like themselves.
Is it suppose to be "- The more I like myself the more others like me"?
 

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Affirmations rock, how do you particulary use them do you use any mental images of yourself while saying them? do you repeat them? I have my own list but its much shorter than thta one
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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UberPhil said:
I once read some literature by RJ and he suggests for increasing the effectiveness of affirmations: read the affirmations in one order, while at the same time playing the affirmations on a tape recorder in a different order. So the tape recorder is always playing a different affirmation than the one you're reading. I think he called it double-induction and said it's more powerful that simply reading them. Anyone have experience doing it that way?
This is a very good idea,

An even better way would be to record them in one order on one tape recorder and in a different order on another recorder. play them at the same time with a different head phone in each ear so you have two different things playing. Its supposed to be the most effective way of getting into your subconcious.

could always read them as well in an even different order.

Always remember to relax when reading affirmations aswell
 

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Instead of asking affirmations straight ask them in the form of a question.

Like "Why am I so attractive to women?"
and then answer yourself with "Because I'm good looking, funny, confident etc.

Most importantly get in the feeling of the affirmation truely feel sexy or attractive of whatever it will not only make you more confident it will make the universe line up scenarios to prove you correct.
 

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Dude, you got the secret DVD in your siggy I'm not too worried about you.:D
 
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Well, anyone has any luck really practising these affirmations out and seeing results in real life?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This is sort of like a self-positive reinforcement. Not a bad thing though.

Self-Confidence is what really drives this. You start this, you think more positive, your self-confidence goes up, you feel better about things. It's a good cycle.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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