AlphaDraconis
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“To the psychologists, the study said something intriguing about sexual attraction: It can transpire from arousal in the form of fear. "The results of these studies," they wrote in 1974, "would seem to provide a basis of support for an emotion-sexual attraction link."
Subsequent studies have found the same link between sheer physical arousal and sexual attraction. In a 2003 study of non-romantic partners on roller coaster rides, researchers found that "ratings of attractiveness and dating desirability toward a photographed individual were substantially higher among those who had completed" the ride, noting that "residual arousal from riding a roller-coaster intensified participants' later experience of attraction."
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To summarise (and I’ve read this in peer reviewed studies), women get more easily sexually aroused when feeling anxious / fearful due to release of adrenaline.
This may explain why they get turned on by bad boy / alphas, possibly because their aggressiveness / stature somewhat scares them (like a monster); their ballsy risk taking behaviours startles them; and their indifferent ‘see you when I see you’ attitude keeps them even more in a heightened state of anxiety.
If you lack alpha attributes, maybe your first date should be on a rollercoaster or cage diving with 20ft great white sharks. That should scare her enough to get you laid.
“To the psychologists, the study said something intriguing about sexual attraction: It can transpire from arousal in the form of fear. "The results of these studies," they wrote in 1974, "would seem to provide a basis of support for an emotion-sexual attraction link."
Subsequent studies have found the same link between sheer physical arousal and sexual attraction. In a 2003 study of non-romantic partners on roller coaster rides, researchers found that "ratings of attractiveness and dating desirability toward a photographed individual were substantially higher among those who had completed" the ride, noting that "residual arousal from riding a roller-coaster intensified participants' later experience of attraction."
When It Comes to Romance, Science Has Good News for Adrenaline Junkies
We may scoff at the elaborate, death-defying dates that The Bachelor comes up with. But it turns out there's actually something to those thrill-seeking dates (and no, it's not just that they're lame metaphors for relationships). For those who…
To summarise (and I’ve read this in peer reviewed studies), women get more easily sexually aroused when feeling anxious / fearful due to release of adrenaline.
This may explain why they get turned on by bad boy / alphas, possibly because their aggressiveness / stature somewhat scares them (like a monster); their ballsy risk taking behaviours startles them; and their indifferent ‘see you when I see you’ attitude keeps them even more in a heightened state of anxiety.
If you lack alpha attributes, maybe your first date should be on a rollercoaster or cage diving with 20ft great white sharks. That should scare her enough to get you laid.
