"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Affection?

lebob

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This girl ive been seeing for around two months said something that made me think. She told me around this time of her usual relationships that theres more affection to it. Like saying I love you all the time and falling asleep on the phone and calling in morning to say i miss u(which is F*cking AFC.) and she said its because im not a relationship guy and I dont show alot of affection. But we all know woman speak another language and the minute you start this bullsh*t is the minute they start cheating. I never tell her my feeling unless she opens up first.
Has she just never been charged to the game and doesnt know what to do or should I open up a little and be more "affectionate"
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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lebob

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lmao nah shes just my fb now. This girl i had on deck right after i met the nexted one and was more worthy of a relationship. Its only been official for like a couple weeks but where already seeing each other for awhile in a sense
 

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Alright. So she wants to be more.. accepted - in lack of a better word. I'm sure you know what I mean. She wants to know that you care about her etc. Well, if you do all of this, she will be gone, that's for sure. Some chicks like this though, but it's more about self-respect.
It seems like you don't show her much affection, show her affection through action, and some by words. Just put it up a notch, not much.

Even though women might at some levels speak another language, it is easily understandable if you know how to interpret it. I'm assuming you're just being yourself with her, so yeah, read the above paragraph.
 
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