"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Affection?

lebob

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This girl ive been seeing for around two months said something that made me think. She told me around this time of her usual relationships that theres more affection to it. Like saying I love you all the time and falling asleep on the phone and calling in morning to say i miss u(which is F*cking AFC.) and she said its because im not a relationship guy and I dont show alot of affection. But we all know woman speak another language and the minute you start this bullsh*t is the minute they start cheating. I never tell her my feeling unless she opens up first.
Has she just never been charged to the game and doesnt know what to do or should I open up a little and be more "affectionate"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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lmao nah shes just my fb now. This girl i had on deck right after i met the nexted one and was more worthy of a relationship. Its only been official for like a couple weeks but where already seeing each other for awhile in a sense
 

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Alright. So she wants to be more.. accepted - in lack of a better word. I'm sure you know what I mean. She wants to know that you care about her etc. Well, if you do all of this, she will be gone, that's for sure. Some chicks like this though, but it's more about self-respect.
It seems like you don't show her much affection, show her affection through action, and some by words. Just put it up a notch, not much.

Even though women might at some levels speak another language, it is easily understandable if you know how to interpret it. I'm assuming you're just being yourself with her, so yeah, read the above paragraph.
 
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