"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Affection?

lebob

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This girl ive been seeing for around two months said something that made me think. She told me around this time of her usual relationships that theres more affection to it. Like saying I love you all the time and falling asleep on the phone and calling in morning to say i miss u(which is F*cking AFC.) and she said its because im not a relationship guy and I dont show alot of affection. But we all know woman speak another language and the minute you start this bullsh*t is the minute they start cheating. I never tell her my feeling unless she opens up first.
Has she just never been charged to the game and doesnt know what to do or should I open up a little and be more "affectionate"
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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lmao nah shes just my fb now. This girl i had on deck right after i met the nexted one and was more worthy of a relationship. Its only been official for like a couple weeks but where already seeing each other for awhile in a sense
 

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Alright. So she wants to be more.. accepted - in lack of a better word. I'm sure you know what I mean. She wants to know that you care about her etc. Well, if you do all of this, she will be gone, that's for sure. Some chicks like this though, but it's more about self-respect.
It seems like you don't show her much affection, show her affection through action, and some by words. Just put it up a notch, not much.

Even though women might at some levels speak another language, it is easily understandable if you know how to interpret it. I'm assuming you're just being yourself with her, so yeah, read the above paragraph.
 
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