"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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you are a MAN.....I just got on this board today saw some of the posts..WTF is wrong with you?????

a women is a women!

here are simple reasons to not be afraid.
you are a MAN

why are u afraid of women?? I bet you play sports? or drive a car? u can DIE IN A ****ING CAR!..but u wont risk ****ing a HOE.

women are weaker minded than you, they are weaker physically then you, they NEED U more, you dont need them you WANT them..so act like u want the *****.

think of how u want to Fu** them...and then do it..if u let ur masculine heritage shine threw it will work.


ok im done ranting


u can be down when ur favorite team loses
or when ur mom dies
or when u dont get the raise u want
or when ur friend get hurts
or u get hurt

but dont get down over REJECTION FROM A WOMEN

JAY Z-BRUSH UR SHOULDERS OFF!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The only way someone can feel this is if they cant get girls...When you get to the point where you can get girls and you are confident in that part of your life, you can feel that way, but for the dudes not getting anything its hard...
 

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You're both right. When you have enough women in your life then these b!tches ain't sh!t even though they're great. When you only have one of something then it really matters. If I had 100 million dollars and lost $50,000 I probably won't notice. But igf I only had $20 and lost $15, I'd be crying.

Anyway, I think the key is that we need to get our skills with women up to par and get our insecurities handled. It seems easier said than done but you have to keep pushing forward. I haven't met and new girls since I dated the last one so maybe that's why I feel so damn frustrated today. Average Frustrated Chump, heh.
 

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I wasnt trying to come off all high and mighty..I still get rejected as much as anyone..

I get rejected because:

im good lookin but not Brad Pitt
Im 5 foot 7 inches
I dont have indisposable income
im not religious


there are many others but im NOT insecure about those things...I dont care if someone doesnt appreciate who i am..or not attractive to what I present them.

so dont be insecure
 

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
I wasnt trying to come off all high and mighty..I still get rejected as much as anyone..

I get rejected because:

im good lookin but not Brad Pitt
Im 5 foot 7 inches
I dont have indisposable income
im not religious


there are many others but im NOT insecure about those things...I dont care if someone doesnt appreciate who i am..or not attractive to what I present them.

so dont be insecure
I've always wondered this. When people say "don't be insecure", what does that really mean? I know it means that you should get rid of your insecurites but what are insecurities that we should get rid of?

As for me I could lose some weight, move out of my parents house, make more money and get more experience with women. Do those count as insecurites that guys should get rid of?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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well it depends..if you are ashamed or would hide those things around another person man or women...then they are insecurities...

if u dont care..and or confident regardless of others opinions..then u arent insecure about that.


for instance..someone could say to me...hey look ur short..and if that bothers me..Im insecure..if I dont give a ****..what they say and Im happy with who I am..then im secure.

if I need to lose 10 lbs..and know this..and am working towards it..then im secure.

but if i feel ashamed of my body and am hesistant to **** cause of it..then im insecure!
 

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
well it depends..if you are ashamed or would hide those things around another person man or women...then they are insecurities...

if u dont care..and or confident regardless of others opinions..then u arent insecure about that.


for instance..someone could say to me...hey look ur short..and if that bothers me..Im insecure..if I dont give a ****..what they say and Im happy with who I am..then im secure.

if I need to lose 10 lbs..and know this..and am working towards it..then im secure.

but if i feel ashamed of my body and am hesistant to **** cause of it..then im insecure!
Cool, that makes sense. Thanks for the clarification. :)
 
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