"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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frivolousz21

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you are a MAN.....I just got on this board today saw some of the posts..WTF is wrong with you?????

a women is a women!

here are simple reasons to not be afraid.
you are a MAN

why are u afraid of women?? I bet you play sports? or drive a car? u can DIE IN A ****ING CAR!..but u wont risk ****ing a HOE.

women are weaker minded than you, they are weaker physically then you, they NEED U more, you dont need them you WANT them..so act like u want the *****.

think of how u want to Fu** them...and then do it..if u let ur masculine heritage shine threw it will work.


ok im done ranting


u can be down when ur favorite team loses
or when ur mom dies
or when u dont get the raise u want
or when ur friend get hurts
or u get hurt

but dont get down over REJECTION FROM A WOMEN

JAY Z-BRUSH UR SHOULDERS OFF!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The only way someone can feel this is if they cant get girls...When you get to the point where you can get girls and you are confident in that part of your life, you can feel that way, but for the dudes not getting anything its hard...
 

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You're both right. When you have enough women in your life then these b!tches ain't sh!t even though they're great. When you only have one of something then it really matters. If I had 100 million dollars and lost $50,000 I probably won't notice. But igf I only had $20 and lost $15, I'd be crying.

Anyway, I think the key is that we need to get our skills with women up to par and get our insecurities handled. It seems easier said than done but you have to keep pushing forward. I haven't met and new girls since I dated the last one so maybe that's why I feel so damn frustrated today. Average Frustrated Chump, heh.
 

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I wasnt trying to come off all high and mighty..I still get rejected as much as anyone..

I get rejected because:

im good lookin but not Brad Pitt
Im 5 foot 7 inches
I dont have indisposable income
im not religious


there are many others but im NOT insecure about those things...I dont care if someone doesnt appreciate who i am..or not attractive to what I present them.

so dont be insecure
 

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
I wasnt trying to come off all high and mighty..I still get rejected as much as anyone..

I get rejected because:

im good lookin but not Brad Pitt
Im 5 foot 7 inches
I dont have indisposable income
im not religious


there are many others but im NOT insecure about those things...I dont care if someone doesnt appreciate who i am..or not attractive to what I present them.

so dont be insecure
I've always wondered this. When people say "don't be insecure", what does that really mean? I know it means that you should get rid of your insecurites but what are insecurities that we should get rid of?

As for me I could lose some weight, move out of my parents house, make more money and get more experience with women. Do those count as insecurites that guys should get rid of?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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well it depends..if you are ashamed or would hide those things around another person man or women...then they are insecurities...

if u dont care..and or confident regardless of others opinions..then u arent insecure about that.


for instance..someone could say to me...hey look ur short..and if that bothers me..Im insecure..if I dont give a ****..what they say and Im happy with who I am..then im secure.

if I need to lose 10 lbs..and know this..and am working towards it..then im secure.

but if i feel ashamed of my body and am hesistant to **** cause of it..then im insecure!
 

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
well it depends..if you are ashamed or would hide those things around another person man or women...then they are insecurities...

if u dont care..and or confident regardless of others opinions..then u arent insecure about that.


for instance..someone could say to me...hey look ur short..and if that bothers me..Im insecure..if I dont give a ****..what they say and Im happy with who I am..then im secure.

if I need to lose 10 lbs..and know this..and am working towards it..then im secure.

but if i feel ashamed of my body and am hesistant to **** cause of it..then im insecure!
Cool, that makes sense. Thanks for the clarification. :)
 
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