"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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WTF? This major nerdy AFC stole my target. I've been wanting to hook up with this cute hindu chick in my history class, but b!tch is already sitting together with the AFC, today i saw them leaving together after class. I saw this guy in action, all he does is smiles like little chump, dresses all dorky and says some random boring BS to her and the girl seemed to responds to that really well.

This kinds of crap really brings me down. I don't know...maybe i'm trying way too hard? I always waiting for the right time to strike...but it has been over a month and i haven't said a word to her. :(
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Move on. It's over pal. (By the way, how do you do those quote things?

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but it has been over a month and i haven't said a word to her.

Thanks.
 
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First off, he may be FZ'ed if he's a dork (likely - dorks don't score)

Secondly, don't use the terms AFC and DJ so loosely...You aren't a DJ if you haven't pulled up the courage to say hello or introduce yourself or ask her a question about class. This dork may or may not be an AFC, looks like you are the frustrated guy right now.....

Having a screename here grants you only the right to post...Becoming a DJ happens through overcoming obstacles and adversity like this situation...grab some balls and say hello....
 
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Originally posted by Online DJ
it has been over a month and i haven't said a word to her. :(
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They have a word for this, and it's not DJ.... it's stalker.

Read the DJ Bible. Absorb the concepts. Apply what you've learned in the field. Forget about this girl and approach 10 others.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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He may be in the friend zone, he may not be...

Your option now... actually say somethin to this girl, trouble is your probably too caught up in gettin that first word right and debatin over what to say that you'll never end up talkin to her...

Just say somethin slightly humorous or make a passing observation, cos in reality what you say isn't gonna have her fall over you...

If she thinks you look good, you can have a lame conversation opener but you've opened the conversation and she wants to talk to you... alternatively if she doesn't think you look good, then barring the most amazin opener ever that makes her see you in an entirely different light, she ain't gonna **** you...

Get some balls...
 
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LOLZ

over a month to just say hi...wtf....and please dont use the AFC and DJ so losely...you are not a DJ
 
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girls will prefer to be around nice guys more, cause they're friendlier and nicer! but it usually means they place them i nthe friends zone.

dont give up ur chances of hooking with her are still high
 
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