"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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AFCs doing better than DJ

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WTF? This major nerdy AFC stole my target. I've been wanting to hook up with this cute hindu chick in my history class, but b!tch is already sitting together with the AFC, today i saw them leaving together after class. I saw this guy in action, all he does is smiles like little chump, dresses all dorky and says some random boring BS to her and the girl seemed to responds to that really well.

This kinds of crap really brings me down. I don't know...maybe i'm trying way too hard? I always waiting for the right time to strike...but it has been over a month and i haven't said a word to her. :(
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Move on. It's over pal. (By the way, how do you do those quote things?

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but it has been over a month and i haven't said a word to her.

Thanks.
 

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First off, he may be FZ'ed if he's a dork (likely - dorks don't score)

Secondly, don't use the terms AFC and DJ so loosely...You aren't a DJ if you haven't pulled up the courage to say hello or introduce yourself or ask her a question about class. This dork may or may not be an AFC, looks like you are the frustrated guy right now.....

Having a screename here grants you only the right to post...Becoming a DJ happens through overcoming obstacles and adversity like this situation...grab some balls and say hello....
 

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Originally posted by Online DJ
it has been over a month and i haven't said a word to her. :(
They have a word for this, and it's not DJ.... it's stalker.

Read the DJ Bible. Absorb the concepts. Apply what you've learned in the field. Forget about this girl and approach 10 others.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Chemistry

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He may be in the friend zone, he may not be...

Your option now... actually say somethin to this girl, trouble is your probably too caught up in gettin that first word right and debatin over what to say that you'll never end up talkin to her...

Just say somethin slightly humorous or make a passing observation, cos in reality what you say isn't gonna have her fall over you...

If she thinks you look good, you can have a lame conversation opener but you've opened the conversation and she wants to talk to you... alternatively if she doesn't think you look good, then barring the most amazin opener ever that makes her see you in an entirely different light, she ain't gonna **** you...

Get some balls...
 

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LOLZ

over a month to just say hi...wtf....and please dont use the AFC and DJ so losely...you are not a DJ
 

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girls will prefer to be around nice guys more, cause they're friendlier and nicer! but it usually means they place them i nthe friends zone.

dont give up ur chances of hooking with her are still high
 
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