"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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AFC vs ALPHA MALE on 2 HB8s (MUST-READ)

skip2mylou781

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I will make this very simple. I ran an experiment on 2 girls, both I would say are easily HB8, possibly HB9 (one was really hot but didnt dress too slutty and the other was really hot but id say her body was a 10 and her face was a 6 or 7).

So anyway, here was the situation:

I will call these 2 girls girl A and girl B.


GIRL A

when I met girl A, I had to basically pry her for her name and #, as she did not seem very interested. Either way though, I got the #, and called a few days later. We set up a date for 1 week after we first met (we met in a club). On the date, I tried kissing her, didnt work, but we cuddled. Eventually she did let me kiss her a little bit, but still showed alot of hesitation and little interest. Next date, we go out a week later, and she seems mroe *****y and less interested. However, it ends with us making out like crazy for about an hour, and by the end of the date, she showed EXTREME attraction to me. Have not seen her again yet, but I will see her very soon.

GIRL B

This girl I met off of myspace, she showed EXTREME interest when we talked online and when we saw each other. She acted very interested on our date, we also missed and made out, she seemed into me. Ever since that date, she LJBF'd me and now I do not talk to her.


So why am i rambling about all this????

VERY SIMPLE.

with GIRL A, she started with a low INTEREST LEVEl and I did EVERYTHING in the DonJuan Bible on her, from ****y funny, to busting her balls, to being a jerk, being persistant in a confident manner, and also at times not showing interest. Also whenever she suggested we go somewhere, id say no and take her where I wanted. (showing her alpha male behavior.) RESULT? her Interest Level went from about 50 to about 85 and things are extra sexy with her now.

with GIRL B, the OPPOSITE IS TRUE. SHe liked me alot when we talked online and during our date, interest level of about 90. We kissed within 20 minutes of first meeting each other. so what was the problem? I was AFC with her. I told her shes sweet, beautiful, complimented, and really made it look like I liked her. and that was it, that was my downfall.


In essence, I performed an experiment for all you guys to show you the difference in results between AFC behavior and ALPHA MALE behavior.


Lesson - AFC BEHAVIOR WILL RESULT IN AN INTERESTED GIRL LOSING INTEREST FAST, WHILE ALPHA BEHAVIOR WILL RESULT IN AN UNINTERESTED GIRL GAINING INTEREST FAST.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ethnomethodologist

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Um, double post... One thing

Second, this has been done by everybody here who has transformed and seen the light.

Three, this concept has been around for freaking ages.

We know alpha means attention grabbing due to excitement and interesting.
We know AFC means no attention due to no excitement and uninteresting.

It's not an experiment you did you freak, you just went out and confirmed something that is true.

It's like being amazed that a ball falls to the ground, and than going hey everybody "look at me!"
 

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lol ethno
 

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From just TWO samples, you correlated that acting AFC or acting DJ will get a girl interested or not.

With GIRL B, you basically showed all your cards. That's almost like dating a girl who gives her p_ussy away within one date. Who'd want to date a ho like that?
 

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I think its good to hear about the novel situations that certain "theories" apply to thanks for the post...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by midnight
I think its good to hear about the novel situations that certain "theories" apply to thanks for the post...
midnight, you better learn fast to read when people respond to you inside of a thread.

Do you really mean what you just said? I mean seriously believe?

That would be interesting, hard to wrap around, weird as hell, but if you believe that SERIOUSLY, than I've got a LOT to learn about teaching people...
 
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