"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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AFC vs ALPHA MALE on 2 HB8s (MUST-READ)

skip2mylou781

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I will make this very simple. I ran an experiment on 2 girls, both I would say are easily HB8, possibly HB9 (one was really hot but didnt dress too slutty and the other was really hot but id say her body was a 10 and her face was a 6 or 7).

So anyway, here was the situation:

I will call these 2 girls girl A and girl B.


GIRL A

when I met girl A, I had to basically pry her for her name and #, as she did not seem very interested. Either way though, I got the #, and called a few days later. We set up a date for 1 week after we first met (we met in a club). On the date, I tried kissing her, didnt work, but we cuddled. Eventually she did let me kiss her a little bit, but still showed alot of hesitation and little interest. Next date, we go out a week later, and she seems mroe *****y and less interested. However, it ends with us making out like crazy for about an hour, and by the end of the date, she showed EXTREME attraction to me. Have not seen her again yet, but I will see her very soon.

GIRL B

This girl I met off of myspace, she showed EXTREME interest when we talked online and when we saw each other. She acted very interested on our date, we also missed and made out, she seemed into me. Ever since that date, she LJBF'd me and now I do not talk to her.


So why am i rambling about all this????

VERY SIMPLE.

with GIRL A, she started with a low INTEREST LEVEl and I did EVERYTHING in the DonJuan Bible on her, from ****y funny, to busting her balls, to being a jerk, being persistant in a confident manner, and also at times not showing interest. Also whenever she suggested we go somewhere, id say no and take her where I wanted. (showing her alpha male behavior.) RESULT? her Interest Level went from about 50 to about 85 and things are extra sexy with her now.

with GIRL B, the OPPOSITE IS TRUE. SHe liked me alot when we talked online and during our date, interest level of about 90. We kissed within 20 minutes of first meeting each other. so what was the problem? I was AFC with her. I told her shes sweet, beautiful, complimented, and really made it look like I liked her. and that was it, that was my downfall.


In essence, I performed an experiment for all you guys to show you the difference in results between AFC behavior and ALPHA MALE behavior.


Lesson - AFC BEHAVIOR WILL RESULT IN AN INTERESTED GIRL LOSING INTEREST FAST, WHILE ALPHA BEHAVIOR WILL RESULT IN AN UNINTERESTED GIRL GAINING INTEREST FAST.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ethnomethodologist

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Um, double post... One thing

Second, this has been done by everybody here who has transformed and seen the light.

Three, this concept has been around for freaking ages.

We know alpha means attention grabbing due to excitement and interesting.
We know AFC means no attention due to no excitement and uninteresting.

It's not an experiment you did you freak, you just went out and confirmed something that is true.

It's like being amazed that a ball falls to the ground, and than going hey everybody "look at me!"
 

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lol ethno
 

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From just TWO samples, you correlated that acting AFC or acting DJ will get a girl interested or not.

With GIRL B, you basically showed all your cards. That's almost like dating a girl who gives her p_ussy away within one date. Who'd want to date a ho like that?
 

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I think its good to hear about the novel situations that certain "theories" apply to thanks for the post...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by midnight
I think its good to hear about the novel situations that certain "theories" apply to thanks for the post...
midnight, you better learn fast to read when people respond to you inside of a thread.

Do you really mean what you just said? I mean seriously believe?

That would be interesting, hard to wrap around, weird as hell, but if you believe that SERIOUSLY, than I've got a LOT to learn about teaching people...
 
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