"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Afc turned alpha need help as returning to afc status.

avada

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Ok so this is a bit of long read.

Im 23 years old. Never had a real girlfrnd. Was 85 kgs at 5ft8in.

I started reading this forum also read the book of john alexender. Reduced wt became 66kgs .
Used the alpha manuers to attract girls and got a gf in 8 days.

The girl was in a long term commited relationship of 5 years and i still made out with her. She is a virgin but i aam confident i could have Fcuked her if i had got some privacy in my room.

So long story short we started the relaationship with her cheating on her bf.
She used to stay in contact with him on phone and stuff. she told me tht she finds it hard to keep dating two guys as she was emotionally attached to both of us. it went on for 40days

Yesterday tht a$$hole cried on phone and told her u have changed etc as a result of which she broke up with me.

I m feeling really down and angry. I m in half a mind to send her bf my FB user id and password and let him knw wht was really goin on.

But doin so will result in what even i don knw. And i m turning into AFC with oneitis.

We have for the time being agreed to stay as frnds but i honestly don knw if i can take it.

Experienced members plz advise me wht to do.

Should i stay frnds wit her or should i messeage her bf.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Greasy Pig

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A true DJ doesn't concern himself with this bullsht.
Just go no contact and have nothing to do with either of them.

By reacting in any way, you show that you care and she'll think she was right to dump you.
Don't react, retire, lick your wounds and get back in the game better than you did before.

By the way, how old are you? You have to put your age in your profile.
 

avada

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Thanks man

i m 23.

i had put my age in the forums while registwrinh
 

Greasy Pig

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Cool, just saw that you're 23.

Mate, at age 23 you have many, many, many women to choose from. These are your "fvcking" years. Read everything you can on these forums and get out there and start meeting other women.
The world truly is your oyster!!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dear All,
There are far too many Typos in this for it to be genuine!
 

avada

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I m typin frm a mobile phone hence the grammatical errors.

And it is true whtever i have written.

Time to get back in action
 
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