"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Afc turned alpha need help as returning to afc status.

avada

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Ok so this is a bit of long read.

Im 23 years old. Never had a real girlfrnd. Was 85 kgs at 5ft8in.

I started reading this forum also read the book of john alexender. Reduced wt became 66kgs .
Used the alpha manuers to attract girls and got a gf in 8 days.

The girl was in a long term commited relationship of 5 years and i still made out with her. She is a virgin but i aam confident i could have Fcuked her if i had got some privacy in my room.

So long story short we started the relaationship with her cheating on her bf.
She used to stay in contact with him on phone and stuff. she told me tht she finds it hard to keep dating two guys as she was emotionally attached to both of us. it went on for 40days

Yesterday tht a$$hole cried on phone and told her u have changed etc as a result of which she broke up with me.

I m feeling really down and angry. I m in half a mind to send her bf my FB user id and password and let him knw wht was really goin on.

But doin so will result in what even i don knw. And i m turning into AFC with oneitis.

We have for the time being agreed to stay as frnds but i honestly don knw if i can take it.

Experienced members plz advise me wht to do.

Should i stay frnds wit her or should i messeage her bf.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A true DJ doesn't concern himself with this bullsht.
Just go no contact and have nothing to do with either of them.

By reacting in any way, you show that you care and she'll think she was right to dump you.
Don't react, retire, lick your wounds and get back in the game better than you did before.

By the way, how old are you? You have to put your age in your profile.
 

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Thanks man

i m 23.

i had put my age in the forums while registwrinh
 

Greasy Pig

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Cool, just saw that you're 23.

Mate, at age 23 you have many, many, many women to choose from. These are your "fvcking" years. Read everything you can on these forums and get out there and start meeting other women.
The world truly is your oyster!!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dear All,
There are far too many Typos in this for it to be genuine!
 

avada

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I m typin frm a mobile phone hence the grammatical errors.

And it is true whtever i have written.

Time to get back in action
 
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