"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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AFC Thugs

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I know this dude that is all tatted up and has the whole thug persona and everything, been to prison.. I mean, I don't think he's afaking being a thug. But holy **** I don't think i've ever seen a bigger AFC in my life.

dude cries on the phone, won't put the phone down.. dude is like 30 and he's like "say i love you before you go". I Never was..okay yes i was lol, but dammit i wasn't a thug

I thought thugs were supposed to be you know.. thugs lol. you can't be a thug and cry on the phone like a little *****


Thug has nothing to do with being DJ or alpha or anything of the like
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hah I remember reading and article somewhere about thug culture being seen as ultra masculine but in actuality their behavior is quite feminine since they're all raised by single moms. So yeah...most thugs are a bunch of pvssies.
 

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Those thugs probably never read SoSuave :)

There's your difference.
 

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i did not anywhere imply all thugs were AFC. please show me where i said that.
 

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Every one thinks its cool to be a "thug" even white people do it. What bothers me is no one teach them to wear their pants like men.

I always want to say "hey man, your pants are falling off." or pants them.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Bad boys, control freaks, thugs are all in the same category. Major insecurity. That's what causes them to do crap like that. A lot of women are screwed up enough to interpret it as strength.
 

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Renegade357 said:
Bad boys, control freaks, thugs are all in the same category. Major insecurity. That's what causes them to do crap like that. A lot of women are screwed up enough to interpret it as strength.
Yeah but not every "thug" fakes it. Al Capone was a bad as$.
 

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noobolgy said:
Every one thinks its cool to be a "thug" even white people do it. What bothers me is no one teach them to wear their pants like men.

I always want to say "hey man, your pants are falling off." or pants them.

The stupidity of that so called thug life is that the pants around the ass cheeks was from prisons to signify to the other inmates in prison that he's ''available'' for an ass banging. Why would you bring that out of the prison and make it cool? Moronic.
 

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The BPD girl I used to fvck had a guy kill another guy over her and went to jail for a while. And he was a giant AFC. He'd cry all the time when they fought, blow up her phone constantly. She would cheat on him with me, and when she talked to him over the phone, I could hardly believe the things she would say to him. She'd call him little boy and pvssy. She hung up once and I told her she had never talked to me like that. She thought about it a moment and said, 'you've never acted like he does, so of course not.' He died of a heroin overdose a few months ago.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Renegade357 said:
Bad boys, control freaks, thugs are all in the same category. Major insecurity. That's what causes them to do crap like that. A lot of women are screwed up enough to interpret it as strength.
Self image obsessed morons. They live in fear of themselves. Women struggle badly to tell the difference between arrogance and confidence. Arrogance is insecure; confidence is secure.
 
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