"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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AFC Thugs

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I know this dude that is all tatted up and has the whole thug persona and everything, been to prison.. I mean, I don't think he's afaking being a thug. But holy **** I don't think i've ever seen a bigger AFC in my life.

dude cries on the phone, won't put the phone down.. dude is like 30 and he's like "say i love you before you go". I Never was..okay yes i was lol, but dammit i wasn't a thug

I thought thugs were supposed to be you know.. thugs lol. you can't be a thug and cry on the phone like a little *****


Thug has nothing to do with being DJ or alpha or anything of the like
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hah I remember reading and article somewhere about thug culture being seen as ultra masculine but in actuality their behavior is quite feminine since they're all raised by single moms. So yeah...most thugs are a bunch of pvssies.
 

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Those thugs probably never read SoSuave :)

There's your difference.
 

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i did not anywhere imply all thugs were AFC. please show me where i said that.
 

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Every one thinks its cool to be a "thug" even white people do it. What bothers me is no one teach them to wear their pants like men.

I always want to say "hey man, your pants are falling off." or pants them.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Bad boys, control freaks, thugs are all in the same category. Major insecurity. That's what causes them to do crap like that. A lot of women are screwed up enough to interpret it as strength.
 

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Renegade357 said:
Bad boys, control freaks, thugs are all in the same category. Major insecurity. That's what causes them to do crap like that. A lot of women are screwed up enough to interpret it as strength.
Yeah but not every "thug" fakes it. Al Capone was a bad as$.
 

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noobolgy said:
Every one thinks its cool to be a "thug" even white people do it. What bothers me is no one teach them to wear their pants like men.

I always want to say "hey man, your pants are falling off." or pants them.

The stupidity of that so called thug life is that the pants around the ass cheeks was from prisons to signify to the other inmates in prison that he's ''available'' for an ass banging. Why would you bring that out of the prison and make it cool? Moronic.
 

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The BPD girl I used to fvck had a guy kill another guy over her and went to jail for a while. And he was a giant AFC. He'd cry all the time when they fought, blow up her phone constantly. She would cheat on him with me, and when she talked to him over the phone, I could hardly believe the things she would say to him. She'd call him little boy and pvssy. She hung up once and I told her she had never talked to me like that. She thought about it a moment and said, 'you've never acted like he does, so of course not.' He died of a heroin overdose a few months ago.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Renegade357 said:
Bad boys, control freaks, thugs are all in the same category. Major insecurity. That's what causes them to do crap like that. A lot of women are screwed up enough to interpret it as strength.
Self image obsessed morons. They live in fear of themselves. Women struggle badly to tell the difference between arrogance and confidence. Arrogance is insecure; confidence is secure.
 
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