"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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AFC still hurts me

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I have a friend that's a girl that always has to tell me who she finds attractive. She's been my friend for over a year--and I've only rid myself of AFCness for about 4 months. She already has a boyfriend, but whenever we hang out she has to mention that she thinks Miguel Cabrera is hott or Brad Pitt or whoever. Not a single day without mentioning some new guy she thinks is hott. I tried to direct the subject to me saying XYZ is hott, but she keeps doing it.


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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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NEXT.....

Dude very very very rarely, more like never will a girl that is interested in you, talk about some other guy who she thinks it hot, so either one, just tell her you dont want to hear it cause your a guy, or next her, but dont think you have much of a chance
 

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I'm not interested in her. She's a 6 at best. and I sometimes need her to take me to school. So I'm in a jam.
 

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well the just be like....you know not to burst your bubble, but XYZ, you are fun to hang out with and its cool being friends, but I am a guy and straight guys and girls just dont talk about so called hot guys, cause the guys dont identify, its liek If I told you about how I (insert you own line here) wanted to have sex all night long witha girl I didtn even know, you wouldnt be interested and probabaly grossed out.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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