"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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AFC still hurts me

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I have a friend that's a girl that always has to tell me who she finds attractive. She's been my friend for over a year--and I've only rid myself of AFCness for about 4 months. She already has a boyfriend, but whenever we hang out she has to mention that she thinks Miguel Cabrera is hott or Brad Pitt or whoever. Not a single day without mentioning some new guy she thinks is hott. I tried to direct the subject to me saying XYZ is hott, but she keeps doing it.


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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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NEXT.....

Dude very very very rarely, more like never will a girl that is interested in you, talk about some other guy who she thinks it hot, so either one, just tell her you dont want to hear it cause your a guy, or next her, but dont think you have much of a chance
 

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I'm not interested in her. She's a 6 at best. and I sometimes need her to take me to school. So I'm in a jam.
 

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well the just be like....you know not to burst your bubble, but XYZ, you are fun to hang out with and its cool being friends, but I am a guy and straight guys and girls just dont talk about so called hot guys, cause the guys dont identify, its liek If I told you about how I (insert you own line here) wanted to have sex all night long witha girl I didtn even know, you wouldnt be interested and probabaly grossed out.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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