"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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AFC Psychology

PumpingIron13

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Hey guys...last night I was thinking to myself why is it that we somewhat get somewhat get so indulgent in our sorrows? Like I will admit for some reason it felt really good sometimes to sit and listen to sad songs of rejection or tell ur sob story to someone. Even now sometimes when an AFC knows theres a way out learning the DJ ways we like to indulge sometimes in our sorrows...anyways i dunno why. It obviously does not help since it only makes that wall between us and getting chicks larger and wider...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Microphone Fiend

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reminds me of something I heard off a movie...

Mike: How did you get over it, I mean how long did it take you?

Rob: I don't know man, sometimes it still hurts. I don't know man, it's like you wake up every day and it hurts a little less, and then you wake up one day and it doesn't hurt at all. And it's like, and this might sound a little weird, but it's like you almost miss that pain.

Mike: You miss the pain?

Rob: …Yeah. For the same reason you miss her… because you lived with it for so long.
real talk
 

oakraiderz2

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The darkness is comfortable because its a habbit. Once you move into the light all the way...its all good. Check the sig.
 
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