"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

AFC Psychology

PumpingIron13

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 30, 2005
Messages
158
Reaction score
1
Location
California
Hey guys...last night I was thinking to myself why is it that we somewhat get somewhat get so indulgent in our sorrows? Like I will admit for some reason it felt really good sometimes to sit and listen to sad songs of rejection or tell ur sob story to someone. Even now sometimes when an AFC knows theres a way out learning the DJ ways we like to indulge sometimes in our sorrows...anyways i dunno why. It obviously does not help since it only makes that wall between us and getting chicks larger and wider...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

Microphone Fiend

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 30, 2003
Messages
2,300
Reaction score
17
Location
Where I be at
reminds me of something I heard off a movie...

Mike: How did you get over it, I mean how long did it take you?

Rob: I don't know man, sometimes it still hurts. I don't know man, it's like you wake up every day and it hurts a little less, and then you wake up one day and it doesn't hurt at all. And it's like, and this might sound a little weird, but it's like you almost miss that pain.

Mike: You miss the pain?

Rob: …Yeah. For the same reason you miss her… because you lived with it for so long.
real talk
 

oakraiderz2

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 26, 2002
Messages
4,626
Reaction score
28
Age
40
Location
Colorado
The darkness is comfortable because its a habbit. Once you move into the light all the way...its all good. Check the sig.
 
Top