Die Hard
Master Don Juan
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I'm 28 and I've always been an AFC and never could see the stupidity of all the stereotypical AFC beliefs which I've been taking for the truth all my life. I've been cured now, just from one day to the other (this was 2 days ago). I'm gonna make a change in my life, it's over with the bull****, I'm gonna reach my full potential (not just with women but with life in general). I'll be a real man now, like I was always supposed to be :box:.
Now it's a matter of doing it. I'm already learning to feel quite comfortable around girls since my colleagues at my new job are 75% women, 25% men. It's a nice learning environment, I try to practice all the basic skills on them: eye contact, body language, chatting with them, do some kino... But I don't wanna go any further because people need to work quite closely together in this job. Kinda frustrating: Lots of girls to go for but knowing it's not smart to actually do it. And if I really wanna get any further with my game, I need to go beyond the basics and actually fix some numbers and go on dates. So that leaves two big opportunities: Being at the club on Saturday night and travelling to work. Saturday nights don't really need much thought right now, I can figure out how to do things in that setting. What occupies my thoughts more right now, is travelling to and from work. I travel by bus and I regularly see HB's in the bus. I want to do more with these particular situations/moments . Obviously I can only talk to them if I have the guts to go and sit next to them. But all kinds of factors go through my mind and I'd like your opinions, fellas.
Suppose I'm already sitting and a HB enters the bus and sits down somewhere, do I just get up off my current seat and take a seat next to her and do my thing? I feel that's a bit too "desperate" or do you guys think it doesn't matter? So what about when they already sit and I enter the bus? If there are totally free seats (I mean a free pair of seats), isn't it kinda too direct when I pick a seat next to her instead of a totally free pair of seats? It's very obvious that I want to hit at her then... but maybe I just shouldn't care about that? And what about the other passengers? Most of the time buses are kinda quiet, people can easily overhear your conversations...I'd feel a lot more comfortable talking to a chick when no on else is listening in on us. So how much of an "I don't care about anything, just do it!!"-attitude should I have? Maybe I should build it up gradually: first only pick the moments when you enter the bus and the chick is already sitting and little people can listen in, then move up from there to more difficult situations? Any good opening tips for this particular situation? First thing that comes to my mind is: "Hi, where are you travelling to?" and take the conversation from there (even if her destination leaves little material to talk about, I can always talk about my destination, which is my job)
Any help/tips would be really welcome! Just anything at all..I really feel I need some support, like I can think of you guys when I'm actually "out there", knowing that I will report and discuss the outcomes of my experiences here afterwards! So thanx in advance!
Now it's a matter of doing it. I'm already learning to feel quite comfortable around girls since my colleagues at my new job are 75% women, 25% men. It's a nice learning environment, I try to practice all the basic skills on them: eye contact, body language, chatting with them, do some kino... But I don't wanna go any further because people need to work quite closely together in this job. Kinda frustrating: Lots of girls to go for but knowing it's not smart to actually do it. And if I really wanna get any further with my game, I need to go beyond the basics and actually fix some numbers and go on dates. So that leaves two big opportunities: Being at the club on Saturday night and travelling to work. Saturday nights don't really need much thought right now, I can figure out how to do things in that setting. What occupies my thoughts more right now, is travelling to and from work. I travel by bus and I regularly see HB's in the bus. I want to do more with these particular situations/moments . Obviously I can only talk to them if I have the guts to go and sit next to them. But all kinds of factors go through my mind and I'd like your opinions, fellas.
Suppose I'm already sitting and a HB enters the bus and sits down somewhere, do I just get up off my current seat and take a seat next to her and do my thing? I feel that's a bit too "desperate" or do you guys think it doesn't matter? So what about when they already sit and I enter the bus? If there are totally free seats (I mean a free pair of seats), isn't it kinda too direct when I pick a seat next to her instead of a totally free pair of seats? It's very obvious that I want to hit at her then... but maybe I just shouldn't care about that? And what about the other passengers? Most of the time buses are kinda quiet, people can easily overhear your conversations...I'd feel a lot more comfortable talking to a chick when no on else is listening in on us. So how much of an "I don't care about anything, just do it!!"-attitude should I have? Maybe I should build it up gradually: first only pick the moments when you enter the bus and the chick is already sitting and little people can listen in, then move up from there to more difficult situations? Any good opening tips for this particular situation? First thing that comes to my mind is: "Hi, where are you travelling to?" and take the conversation from there (even if her destination leaves little material to talk about, I can always talk about my destination, which is my job)
Any help/tips would be really welcome! Just anything at all..I really feel I need some support, like I can think of you guys when I'm actually "out there", knowing that I will report and discuss the outcomes of my experiences here afterwards! So thanx in advance!
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