"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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No longer need help-day is over went fine. Got some basic conversation with a HB 10 in the wave pool.

So I've read some stuff on this bored, half way done with the DJ bible, but have yet to do anything. So tomorrow my family is making me go to a water park for a family fun day since my step dad has never gone to one. I'm fine with that, but I have no tan at all and the tan I have is a farmers tan. They sprung me on this last minute.

I want to try to do some basic conversation and maybe 1 phone number while i am at the water park.

-So my question is should I take my shirt off or only take it off when I'm not seeing any girls my age to try out my game?

-Any tips on how to spark up conversations at water parks would be terrific since I know im going to be terrified to talk casually since there will be tons of HB's in bikinis there.

-I have no car and am busy 7 days a week ( 2 days volunteering, 1 day internship, 4 days job)- I'm one of those obsessive teens who are constantly worried about getting into a top liberal arts college. Sorry about posting this when I havent read a lot of DJ stuff yet, but I want to work on picking up girls while I am not in school and I have very few chances due to my schedule.


I am 15 years old, white, 6'2, in shape kind of skinny but I do work out ( I squat 225 5x5- not bad, but not great)
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Read the DJ Bible, it will answer all of your questions better than we could!
 
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Allow me to just say this: take your shirt off, leave it in the car. I used to be really self-conscious about my farmer's tan so I know exactly where you're coming from and trust me, it's way not worth worrying about, just take it off and have a good time. You'll get some good sun too.
 
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Yea, just relax and have a good time. Girls are attracted to a DJ who is confident, relaxed and fun. Once you get one of the three, its pretty easy to get the other two. :cool:

Enjoy your time, spray a random girl you see with water and you can start up a playful water fight. After, if she is fun, then you can ask her to go suntanning to get rid of your farmers tan. And you guys can talk while you bake in the sun. :D


Well, thats what'd I do.
Good luck bro :up:
 
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