"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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No longer need help-day is over went fine. Got some basic conversation with a HB 10 in the wave pool.

So I've read some stuff on this bored, half way done with the DJ bible, but have yet to do anything. So tomorrow my family is making me go to a water park for a family fun day since my step dad has never gone to one. I'm fine with that, but I have no tan at all and the tan I have is a farmers tan. They sprung me on this last minute.

I want to try to do some basic conversation and maybe 1 phone number while i am at the water park.

-So my question is should I take my shirt off or only take it off when I'm not seeing any girls my age to try out my game?

-Any tips on how to spark up conversations at water parks would be terrific since I know im going to be terrified to talk casually since there will be tons of HB's in bikinis there.

-I have no car and am busy 7 days a week ( 2 days volunteering, 1 day internship, 4 days job)- I'm one of those obsessive teens who are constantly worried about getting into a top liberal arts college. Sorry about posting this when I havent read a lot of DJ stuff yet, but I want to work on picking up girls while I am not in school and I have very few chances due to my schedule.


I am 15 years old, white, 6'2, in shape kind of skinny but I do work out ( I squat 225 5x5- not bad, but not great)
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Read the DJ Bible, it will answer all of your questions better than we could!
 
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Allow me to just say this: take your shirt off, leave it in the car. I used to be really self-conscious about my farmer's tan so I know exactly where you're coming from and trust me, it's way not worth worrying about, just take it off and have a good time. You'll get some good sun too.
 
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Yea, just relax and have a good time. Girls are attracted to a DJ who is confident, relaxed and fun. Once you get one of the three, its pretty easy to get the other two. :cool:

Enjoy your time, spray a random girl you see with water and you can start up a playful water fight. After, if she is fun, then you can ask her to go suntanning to get rid of your farmers tan. And you guys can talk while you bake in the sun. :D


Well, thats what'd I do.
Good luck bro :up:
 
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