"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"AFC" move to take pressure off and move on...

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mystic03

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I know what all of you may think, but listen to me for just a minute.

I like this woman who is a good friend of mine, I am almost sure that she's not interested in me at a romantic level, but i just can't figure out how to forget and move on. I need some kind of closure. I was thinking to tell her flat out that I like her ( not that I love her because that will be unrealistic and stupid). This is becasue she has allways told me that she likes men to tell what they want from the begining and she allways tell them if she's interested or not, she doesn't like runarounds. I've witnessed it so I can tell it's true.

I need to move on, this is eating my mind. Do you think this would be stupid?
If the answer is yes, tell me then how a resolve this.

Thank you.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Demodulate

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i guess tell her.. what else do you have to lose...

she will either repsond positively or you will get your closure....
 
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Wannabe_DonJuan

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I used to fancy a girl for ages. I eventually asked her out, did it in a really dumb way and got the rejection.

Then I forgot about her.

so just do it, you have nothing to lose.
 
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