"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"AFC" move to take pressure off and move on...

mystic03

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I know what all of you may think, but listen to me for just a minute.

I like this woman who is a good friend of mine, I am almost sure that she's not interested in me at a romantic level, but i just can't figure out how to forget and move on. I need some kind of closure. I was thinking to tell her flat out that I like her ( not that I love her because that will be unrealistic and stupid). This is becasue she has allways told me that she likes men to tell what they want from the begining and she allways tell them if she's interested or not, she doesn't like runarounds. I've witnessed it so I can tell it's true.

I need to move on, this is eating my mind. Do you think this would be stupid?
If the answer is yes, tell me then how a resolve this.

Thank you.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Demodulate

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i guess tell her.. what else do you have to lose...

she will either repsond positively or you will get your closure....
 

Wannabe_DonJuan

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I used to fancy a girl for ages. I eventually asked her out, did it in a really dumb way and got the rejection.

Then I forgot about her.

so just do it, you have nothing to lose.
 
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