"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Any advice on how to dominate and gain in the relationship with a female? Approach success, and in general getting more than I put in, help.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Don't play games, but Never give more than you get.
 

Rainman4707

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The best advice I can give you is whatever you do, don't be a wussy.

Be chivalrous, make the decisions i.e setting up dates. Don't text to much. BE IN CONTROL.

Sometimes I think we read to much into things. When I was young...I thought well I'm a great looking lad so if I get good at boxing & be able to hold my own with most guys in a fight...well I'm half way to having most women. Pretty simple sometimes.

"No matter how much you learn or think you know. One day you will realise you had it inside you from the beginning"
 

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I went and found this gem in quotes.

"The act of performing favors even when he feels he is being taken advantage of."

Any way to reverse that without use of seduction?
 

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Plow through any questions or hesitations on her part, especially any sh1t tests. Don't act confident. Be confident. She is replaceable.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Solid advice from the guys, but I'd like to add that if you're currently in a relationship, you cannot do a 360 and be Mr. Alpha dude over night. She'll see right through that and not consider it. This works best when you strip your persona down to the core, as well as getting rid of all your toxic relationships. Starting fresh is a great thing.
 

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Live on your own terms and don't compromise your values to just to get p*ssy.

Never put yourself in a situation where you are the weaker party (friend zone, orbiter, faggot). Only deal with women who have high interest and/or follow your lead. Spin plates, keep your options open, follow your own rules, don't be afraid of disappointing women or hurting their feelings. Be unapologetic about what you want.

Its really that simple. :up:
 

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PlayHer Man said:
Live on your own terms and don't compromise your values to just to get p*ssy.

Never put yourself in a situation where you are the weaker party (friend zone, orbiter, faggot).
:up:
no hug?
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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