"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

afc manipulation

sekC player

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 5, 2014
Messages
14
Reaction score
0
Any advice on how to dominate and gain in the relationship with a female? Approach success, and in general getting more than I put in, help.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

GADavid

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 20, 2012
Messages
165
Reaction score
8
Don't play games, but Never give more than you get.
 

Rainman4707

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 30, 2012
Messages
1,731
Reaction score
601
The best advice I can give you is whatever you do, don't be a wussy.

Be chivalrous, make the decisions i.e setting up dates. Don't text to much. BE IN CONTROL.

Sometimes I think we read to much into things. When I was young...I thought well I'm a great looking lad so if I get good at boxing & be able to hold my own with most guys in a fight...well I'm half way to having most women. Pretty simple sometimes.

"No matter how much you learn or think you know. One day you will realise you had it inside you from the beginning"
 

sekC player

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 5, 2014
Messages
14
Reaction score
0
I went and found this gem in quotes.

"The act of performing favors even when he feels he is being taken advantage of."

Any way to reverse that without use of seduction?
 

Uncharted

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 1, 2013
Messages
740
Reaction score
47
Location
Brooklyn, NY
Plow through any questions or hesitations on her part, especially any sh1t tests. Don't act confident. Be confident. She is replaceable.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

VladPatton

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 26, 2012
Messages
3,246
Reaction score
232
Location
NYC
Solid advice from the guys, but I'd like to add that if you're currently in a relationship, you cannot do a 360 and be Mr. Alpha dude over night. She'll see right through that and not consider it. This works best when you strip your persona down to the core, as well as getting rid of all your toxic relationships. Starting fresh is a great thing.
 

PlayHer Man

Banned
Joined
Dec 22, 2012
Messages
1,695
Reaction score
190
Location
East Coast USA
Live on your own terms and don't compromise your values to just to get p*ssy.

Never put yourself in a situation where you are the weaker party (friend zone, orbiter, faggot). Only deal with women who have high interest and/or follow your lead. Spin plates, keep your options open, follow your own rules, don't be afraid of disappointing women or hurting their feelings. Be unapologetic about what you want.

Its really that simple. :up:
 

sekC player

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 5, 2014
Messages
14
Reaction score
0
PlayHer Man said:
Live on your own terms and don't compromise your values to just to get p*ssy.

Never put yourself in a situation where you are the weaker party (friend zone, orbiter, faggot).
:up:
no hug?
 
Last edited:

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Top