"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hello.

I'm going to cut to the case, I'm 20 years old and virgin. It does not affect me that much, since coincidences has made it seem like I'm not. I've just read "The Game" by Neil Strauss. A friend of mine told me to read it to introduce me to the idea. He also told me of some other books like: "Mystery method" and some other books from that circle. But later he told me to drop them as they were "not good enough". Didn't ask why, just took him on his word.

So now I'm wondering what I should read and try out. I don't have any problems talking to women, as long as it is natural in a setting. For example, women at the same vôrspiel, party(small), at work, friends and so on. The problems comes to approaching women, and getting to the sex. Actually I haven't kissed a girl in over two years. Mainly cause I don't go out that much, since many of my friends have moved from the city.

So I hope you can help me get into this stuff. If you have any questions ask away.

Also I'm currently living in a small town in Norway.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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1. Be mysterious
2. Don't talk about negative stuff or problems
3. Stop making excuses for yourself.
4. Touch gentle and in a non threatening way at first
5. Learn to read body language
6. Go out alone, people will come to you because they wonder why you are alone. And you can say that you lost your friends or meet with them later. Then you won't see you as some freak.
 

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Send meg en PM, kan ikke sende til deg før du har 10 posts. Sjekk ut HS forumet for ting å sjekke ut hvis du ikke kan sende PM.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Mystery method is very outdated, there is plenty of material out there thats more efficient with fewer steps and more natural game. If you could get your hands on RSD's the blueprint you wont need to read anything else
 

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Honestly, you don't really need any books. You have to put yourself out there. Learn that rejection isn't scary and reflect on how you can change encounters that didn't go your way to finish successfully. And it's key to never dismiss girls by concluding that you're not handsome, rich, tall, etc. enough.

Remember that the only thing that comes to those who wait is regret.
 

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y2e0a1r0 said:
Hello.I'm wondering what I should read and try out. The problems comes to approaching women, and getting to the sex. Actually I haven't kissed a girl in over two years. Mainly cause I don't go out that much, since many of my friends have moved from the city.
Norway? Isn't there more cows than people there? I don't blame you, haha.

Just kidding. Anyway, I posted some responses to a guy is just starting out like

you. Take a look at all the responses and chose some stuff!

Here is the link:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=180242
 

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r0cky said:
Mystery method is very outdated, there is plenty of material out there thats more efficient with fewer steps and more natural game. If you could get your hands on RSD's the blueprint you wont need to read anything else
Agreed.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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