"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hello.

I'm going to cut to the case, I'm 20 years old and virgin. It does not affect me that much, since coincidences has made it seem like I'm not. I've just read "The Game" by Neil Strauss. A friend of mine told me to read it to introduce me to the idea. He also told me of some other books like: "Mystery method" and some other books from that circle. But later he told me to drop them as they were "not good enough". Didn't ask why, just took him on his word.

So now I'm wondering what I should read and try out. I don't have any problems talking to women, as long as it is natural in a setting. For example, women at the same vôrspiel, party(small), at work, friends and so on. The problems comes to approaching women, and getting to the sex. Actually I haven't kissed a girl in over two years. Mainly cause I don't go out that much, since many of my friends have moved from the city.

So I hope you can help me get into this stuff. If you have any questions ask away.

Also I'm currently living in a small town in Norway.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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1. Be mysterious
2. Don't talk about negative stuff or problems
3. Stop making excuses for yourself.
4. Touch gentle and in a non threatening way at first
5. Learn to read body language
6. Go out alone, people will come to you because they wonder why you are alone. And you can say that you lost your friends or meet with them later. Then you won't see you as some freak.
 

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Send meg en PM, kan ikke sende til deg før du har 10 posts. Sjekk ut HS forumet for ting å sjekke ut hvis du ikke kan sende PM.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Mystery method is very outdated, there is plenty of material out there thats more efficient with fewer steps and more natural game. If you could get your hands on RSD's the blueprint you wont need to read anything else
 

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Honestly, you don't really need any books. You have to put yourself out there. Learn that rejection isn't scary and reflect on how you can change encounters that didn't go your way to finish successfully. And it's key to never dismiss girls by concluding that you're not handsome, rich, tall, etc. enough.

Remember that the only thing that comes to those who wait is regret.
 

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y2e0a1r0 said:
Hello.I'm wondering what I should read and try out. The problems comes to approaching women, and getting to the sex. Actually I haven't kissed a girl in over two years. Mainly cause I don't go out that much, since many of my friends have moved from the city.
Norway? Isn't there more cows than people there? I don't blame you, haha.

Just kidding. Anyway, I posted some responses to a guy is just starting out like

you. Take a look at all the responses and chose some stuff!

Here is the link:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=180242
 

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r0cky said:
Mystery method is very outdated, there is plenty of material out there thats more efficient with fewer steps and more natural game. If you could get your hands on RSD's the blueprint you wont need to read anything else
Agreed.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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