"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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AFC here.. need help

MuffinMan

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Alright, men, I need some help.. I'm 18, and I have absolutely no game/swag/whatever you want to call it.. I'm tall and fat, and going into culinary arts, so I'm never going to be skinny or ripped, but I need some tips for big and tall guys. thanks.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Borknagar

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dude, you have to at least try, I used to be fat, I never thought I'd ever look even decent, now I think I look awesome
 

killuminaty

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dude start working on urself...work out go running every day...im doing this and i feel so much better about myself lately i am more energized and i know i will be more attractive and confident which will make this a lot easier
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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MuffinMan

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Thanks for the tips guys... and no Gray, I'm not a troll. But thanks for your concern. I've tried running, and I usually give up due to laziness and poor diet after about 3 or 4 days.. I know, that's my issue, quitting/giving up before really getting into it.. I just, I don't know what it is that makes me not try..
 
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