"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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AFC here.. need help

MuffinMan

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Alright, men, I need some help.. I'm 18, and I have absolutely no game/swag/whatever you want to call it.. I'm tall and fat, and going into culinary arts, so I'm never going to be skinny or ripped, but I need some tips for big and tall guys. thanks.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Borknagar

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dude, you have to at least try, I used to be fat, I never thought I'd ever look even decent, now I think I look awesome
 

killuminaty

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dude start working on urself...work out go running every day...im doing this and i feel so much better about myself lately i am more energized and i know i will be more attractive and confident which will make this a lot easier
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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MuffinMan

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Thanks for the tips guys... and no Gray, I'm not a troll. But thanks for your concern. I've tried running, and I usually give up due to laziness and poor diet after about 3 or 4 days.. I know, that's my issue, quitting/giving up before really getting into it.. I just, I don't know what it is that makes me not try..
 
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