"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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AFC goin Alpha-Final Stage

Cupified

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Hey peeps

I'll admit, for most of my life I was an AFC-never had a real girlfriend, never went out of a date, never been kissed and it's my 12 year in High school. I'm ready to get out and explore. Recently I've chatted with a buddy of mine who showed my this site and all the tips on approaching chicks and I have found a lot of the conversational resources and gaining confidence and that good stuff very helpful.

There’s this really hott 8.5 I wanna kiss but it seems it'll never happen. I like go over to talk to her but get short answers. Finally i just cope out and stop talking. I try like writing little notes, playing like I'm not interested, but nothing works! I'm not in the stalker book or anything...more as just in the "let's just be friends" category and I wanna get out. I try inviting her out to arouse and do fun stuff together but always get turned down. I tried the positive mind set...seeing her as my g/f already...the whole nine-years and it keeps failing. She still entertains me when I talk to her which gives me some sort of hope there's a chance but when when when? She says she has a b/f but I don't believe her cause she's lied to me before.

I believe if I can get her it'll be my break outta being just your average, low, high school chump.

Should I give up and call it quits?
 
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Mr_rogers

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Cupified said:
Hey peeps

I'll admit, for most of my life I was an AFC-never had a real girlfriend, never went out of a date, never been kissed and it's my 12 year in High school. I'm ready to get out and explore. Recently I've chatted with a buddy of mine who showed my this site and all the tips on approaching chicks and I have found a lot of the conversational resources and gaining confidence and that good stuff very helpful.

There’s this really hott 8.5 I wanna kiss but it seems it'll never happen. I like go over to talk to her but get short answers. Finally i just cope out and stop talking. I try like writing little notes, playing like I'm not interested, but nothing works! I'm not in the stalker book or anything...more as just in the "let's just be friends" category and I wanna get out. I try inviting her out to arouse and do fun stuff together but always get turned down. I tried the positive mind set...seeing her as my g/f already...the whole nine-years and it keeps failing. She still entertains me when I talk to her which gives me some sort of hope there's a chance but when when when? She says she has a b/f but I don't believe her cause she's lied to me before.

I believe if I can get her it'll be my break outta being just your average, low, high school chump.

Should I give up and call it quits?
I'd keep my eye on her, but in the meantime look for someone else, too. Just in case, y'know?
 

GaryUranga

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heres what you do; she probably knows you have some interest and isnt creeped out and keeps talking to you, so, go flirt with a bunch of other girls, Id say thatd be your best shot, and if it doesnt work youll have all the other girls
 
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