"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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AFC goin Alpha-Final Stage

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Hey peeps

I'll admit, for most of my life I was an AFC-never had a real girlfriend, never went out of a date, never been kissed and it's my 12 year in High school. I'm ready to get out and explore. Recently I've chatted with a buddy of mine who showed my this site and all the tips on approaching chicks and I have found a lot of the conversational resources and gaining confidence and that good stuff very helpful.

There’s this really hott 8.5 I wanna kiss but it seems it'll never happen. I like go over to talk to her but get short answers. Finally i just cope out and stop talking. I try like writing little notes, playing like I'm not interested, but nothing works! I'm not in the stalker book or anything...more as just in the "let's just be friends" category and I wanna get out. I try inviting her out to arouse and do fun stuff together but always get turned down. I tried the positive mind set...seeing her as my g/f already...the whole nine-years and it keeps failing. She still entertains me when I talk to her which gives me some sort of hope there's a chance but when when when? She says she has a b/f but I don't believe her cause she's lied to me before.

I believe if I can get her it'll be my break outta being just your average, low, high school chump.

Should I give up and call it quits?
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Mr_rogers

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Cupified said:
Hey peeps

I'll admit, for most of my life I was an AFC-never had a real girlfriend, never went out of a date, never been kissed and it's my 12 year in High school. I'm ready to get out and explore. Recently I've chatted with a buddy of mine who showed my this site and all the tips on approaching chicks and I have found a lot of the conversational resources and gaining confidence and that good stuff very helpful.

There’s this really hott 8.5 I wanna kiss but it seems it'll never happen. I like go over to talk to her but get short answers. Finally i just cope out and stop talking. I try like writing little notes, playing like I'm not interested, but nothing works! I'm not in the stalker book or anything...more as just in the "let's just be friends" category and I wanna get out. I try inviting her out to arouse and do fun stuff together but always get turned down. I tried the positive mind set...seeing her as my g/f already...the whole nine-years and it keeps failing. She still entertains me when I talk to her which gives me some sort of hope there's a chance but when when when? She says she has a b/f but I don't believe her cause she's lied to me before.

I believe if I can get her it'll be my break outta being just your average, low, high school chump.

Should I give up and call it quits?
I'd keep my eye on her, but in the meantime look for someone else, too. Just in case, y'know?
 

GaryUranga

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heres what you do; she probably knows you have some interest and isnt creeped out and keeps talking to you, so, go flirt with a bunch of other girls, Id say thatd be your best shot, and if it doesnt work youll have all the other girls
 
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