"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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AFC Childhood Poll

AFC raised by

  • MOTHER ONLY (I am or was bellow marginal with ladies)

    Votes: 14 45.2%
  • FATHER ONLY (I am or was bellow marginal with ladies)

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • BOTH PARENTS (I am or was bellow marginal with ladies)

    Votes: 17 54.8%

  • Total voters
    31

unorthodox

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This poll is for all AFCs or past AFCs to DJ converts. If you are naturally good with ladies all the power to you :up: don't participate in the voting.

This is to find out if getting raised by mother, father, or both parents has any effect to being wuss with girls.


Ages raised that count are 6 to 16. If both parents but influenced more by mommy, then put in mother.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hitman10000

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Weren't you the one that made a post about how great your Found-on- Road Dead Mustang Gay-Turismo car was?
 

unorthodox

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I'm not even gonna dignify that by response. Some fag drives miata and picks up sheep, who cares. :kick:
 

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Well just in case if you did bad in the past, you should vote man. It's anonymous ;)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Black Circle

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None of the above. Its almost all genetic. My brother and I grew up with the same parents and my brother was from a pretty young age very good with chicks and I wasn't. It came natural to my brother and I had to learn from my mistakes. Aint life a bit<h.
 

Chosen1

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woogalie said:
someone please tell me what an AFC is?
You should have studied speed seduction it's an average frustrated chump.
 

OBSYDYN

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Raised primarily by mother.

I wasn't an AFC until I graduated high school. After lurking on this site, I grew out of it for the most part.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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woogalie

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I was an AFC for the past 4 years I was with my girlfriend... during high school I lost most of my AFC but then it came back when I got into a LTR... AFC Influenced by mother... 3 months ago I switched from AFC to DJ!

My girlfriend at the time didnt want me to get a dirtbike. she b!tched and B1tched about not wanting me to get a fricken mx bike...

I started reading this stuff to better my life and 3 months ago I traded my girlfriend in for a dirtbike HAHA! My new dirtbike has gotten so many girls interested in me now! Best move i've ever made! :crackup:
 

Kuhlraum

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Raised by mom and dad until I was 12 and then my mom after that, 23 now. I didn't do too bad in high school, but I've worked a job for the last six years where I only talk to about two people per day. So, I have lost pretty much all social skills. The people that I do talk to are all people that I have known for years.
 
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