"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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AFC Childhood Poll

AFC raised by

  • MOTHER ONLY (I am or was bellow marginal with ladies)

    Votes: 14 45.2%
  • FATHER ONLY (I am or was bellow marginal with ladies)

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • BOTH PARENTS (I am or was bellow marginal with ladies)

    Votes: 17 54.8%

  • Total voters
    31

unorthodox

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This poll is for all AFCs or past AFCs to DJ converts. If you are naturally good with ladies all the power to you :up: don't participate in the voting.

This is to find out if getting raised by mother, father, or both parents has any effect to being wuss with girls.


Ages raised that count are 6 to 16. If both parents but influenced more by mommy, then put in mother.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Hitman10000

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Weren't you the one that made a post about how great your Found-on- Road Dead Mustang Gay-Turismo car was?
 

unorthodox

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I'm not even gonna dignify that by response. Some fag drives miata and picks up sheep, who cares. :kick:
 

unorthodox

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Well just in case if you did bad in the past, you should vote man. It's anonymous ;)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Black Circle

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None of the above. Its almost all genetic. My brother and I grew up with the same parents and my brother was from a pretty young age very good with chicks and I wasn't. It came natural to my brother and I had to learn from my mistakes. Aint life a bit<h.
 

Chosen1

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woogalie said:
someone please tell me what an AFC is?
You should have studied speed seduction it's an average frustrated chump.
 

OBSYDYN

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Raised primarily by mother.

I wasn't an AFC until I graduated high school. After lurking on this site, I grew out of it for the most part.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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woogalie

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I was an AFC for the past 4 years I was with my girlfriend... during high school I lost most of my AFC but then it came back when I got into a LTR... AFC Influenced by mother... 3 months ago I switched from AFC to DJ!

My girlfriend at the time didnt want me to get a dirtbike. she b!tched and B1tched about not wanting me to get a fricken mx bike...

I started reading this stuff to better my life and 3 months ago I traded my girlfriend in for a dirtbike HAHA! My new dirtbike has gotten so many girls interested in me now! Best move i've ever made! :crackup:
 

Kuhlraum

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Raised by mom and dad until I was 12 and then my mom after that, 23 now. I didn't do too bad in high school, but I've worked a job for the last six years where I only talk to about two people per day. So, I have lost pretty much all social skills. The people that I do talk to are all people that I have known for years.
 
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