"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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AFC Bootcamp and my approach journal plus field report

henrydreamx

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Thats right to all the AFC on this sitr which are most of the guys on here.Me and chosen1 are alot alike by he sits home wacthes TV all day and I sit home and use the computer all day!So im starting a bootcamp this is WEEK1 i'll start the bootcamp monday,and ill post my field report and approach journal.I gotta stop staying home and gotta start approaching girls even its rejection.So if you want to join post I joined here are the test for WEEK1:

1.)Get off the f*cken computer
2.)Make eye contact
3.)Take showers atleast daily or more often
4.)Say hi to atleast 10 girls are hb 9s or 10s

Lets start this my AFC friends im seriously tired of just being on the computer all f*cken day!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Don't limit yourself to HB 9s or 10s. Also, you can do a little more than say 'hi'. No matter how bad you might be with girls, saying hi to a girl is going to do little to get your confidence up. Go into the approach with something to talk about (something simple like where you're from, your interests and so on), and try to keep a conversation going for a good 2 or 3 minutes. If she flakes out and makes an excuse to leave you, then pickup on what you did and just improve on it. Rejection isn't as bad as it sounds. One who doesn't want to make a mistake, will not make anything.
 

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WC2 said:
Don't limit yourself to HB 9s or 10s. Also, you can do a little more than say 'hi'. No matter how bad you might be with girls, saying hi to a girl is going to do little to get your confidence up. Go into the approach with something to talk about (something simple like where you're from, your interests and so on), and try to keep a conversation going for a good 2 or 3 minutes. If she flakes out and makes an excuse to leave you, then pickup on what you did and just improve on it. Rejection isn't as bad as it sounds. One who doesn't want to make a mistake, will not make anything.
Good point but remeber this is only week1,week2 will be approach and make a conversation.
 

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This guy cant possibly be for real. He's a troll.
The wussiness is waaay overdone- the stupidy level is too high to be normal. Notice he does the exact opposite of what a helpful poster tells him to, just check out his ****y & funny post.
Other things he does jsut to annoy people are putting a \ infront of apostrophes or Typing Entire Posts With A Capital Letter For Each Word. His range of typos and grammatical errors are far too widespread to be consistent with the way a normal person types/speaks.
Dreamxhenry is nothing but a troll, and only a mildly amusing one at that. He may redeem himself if he starts to post some really whacky field reports, but until then hes an annoying turd.

DREAMXHENRY GROW UP! YOU WILL NEVER BE ANOTHER DR BEARD!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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