"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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AFC Bootcamp and my approach journal plus field report

henrydreamx

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Thats right to all the AFC on this sitr which are most of the guys on here.Me and chosen1 are alot alike by he sits home wacthes TV all day and I sit home and use the computer all day!So im starting a bootcamp this is WEEK1 i'll start the bootcamp monday,and ill post my field report and approach journal.I gotta stop staying home and gotta start approaching girls even its rejection.So if you want to join post I joined here are the test for WEEK1:

1.)Get off the f*cken computer
2.)Make eye contact
3.)Take showers atleast daily or more often
4.)Say hi to atleast 10 girls are hb 9s or 10s

Lets start this my AFC friends im seriously tired of just being on the computer all f*cken day!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Don't limit yourself to HB 9s or 10s. Also, you can do a little more than say 'hi'. No matter how bad you might be with girls, saying hi to a girl is going to do little to get your confidence up. Go into the approach with something to talk about (something simple like where you're from, your interests and so on), and try to keep a conversation going for a good 2 or 3 minutes. If she flakes out and makes an excuse to leave you, then pickup on what you did and just improve on it. Rejection isn't as bad as it sounds. One who doesn't want to make a mistake, will not make anything.
 

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WC2 said:
Don't limit yourself to HB 9s or 10s. Also, you can do a little more than say 'hi'. No matter how bad you might be with girls, saying hi to a girl is going to do little to get your confidence up. Go into the approach with something to talk about (something simple like where you're from, your interests and so on), and try to keep a conversation going for a good 2 or 3 minutes. If she flakes out and makes an excuse to leave you, then pickup on what you did and just improve on it. Rejection isn't as bad as it sounds. One who doesn't want to make a mistake, will not make anything.
Good point but remeber this is only week1,week2 will be approach and make a conversation.
 

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This guy cant possibly be for real. He's a troll.
The wussiness is waaay overdone- the stupidy level is too high to be normal. Notice he does the exact opposite of what a helpful poster tells him to, just check out his ****y & funny post.
Other things he does jsut to annoy people are putting a \ infront of apostrophes or Typing Entire Posts With A Capital Letter For Each Word. His range of typos and grammatical errors are far too widespread to be consistent with the way a normal person types/speaks.
Dreamxhenry is nothing but a troll, and only a mildly amusing one at that. He may redeem himself if he starts to post some really whacky field reports, but until then hes an annoying turd.

DREAMXHENRY GROW UP! YOU WILL NEVER BE ANOTHER DR BEARD!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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