SquirrelScammer
Senior Don Juan
I think it would be great if everyone could contribute to a compilation of afc behaviors to avoid to use as a little reference and so questions about "Would this be like an afc" won't be frequent.
Here are the things I know of that come to mind.
-Don't bring flowers or gifts (esp expensive) on the first date
-Don't give all your attention and time to the girl
-Don't write poems conveying how much you love her, better yet, NO poems
-Don't compliment alot, but if you do, elaborate on it so you stand out (i.e. I like your hair, you should keep it that way)Or just neghit if you think she looks good enough to handle it
-The phone should only be used to set up a date, especially when you first get it
-Don't ask for things that you should feel and that should come naturally like kisses, bjs, or sex
-Don't go out of your way to do or get things for her
-Don't ask if she likes you or if she is attracted to you, you should be able to tell things like that from her body language and what she says.
-Don't let things like initiating kino, conversations, or setting up date/getting number up to her. Be a man, If she asks for yours, tell her you're really busy and aren't home much, and that she should give you hers so you could make sure you can set something up.
-Be mysterious, if she asks you alot of questions, give somewhat vague answers or ones that allude to something. Don't overdo it though, as chicks may eventually get tired of it.
-Don't think of any girl as the "girl of your dreams" "perfect 10" or "most beautiful girl I've ever seen" and other titles that would hinder your ability as a dj. Just try to relax and remember shes really just another girl that does everything you do, even burp/fart in public. If you must, try to get the mentality you get when talking to a sister, aunt, your mother, or any female relative.
-Don't get caught up talking about your interests, things you like to do, what happened to you last night unless she asks. Keep the conversation going by talking about her, her hopes and dreams, most exciting thing she's ever done or seen.
-Lastly write down or remember mistakes made in conversations, on dates, or while touching/kissing/etc... So you can improve and not let history repeat itself
Here are the things I know of that come to mind.
-Don't bring flowers or gifts (esp expensive) on the first date
-Don't give all your attention and time to the girl
-Don't write poems conveying how much you love her, better yet, NO poems
-Don't compliment alot, but if you do, elaborate on it so you stand out (i.e. I like your hair, you should keep it that way)Or just neghit if you think she looks good enough to handle it
-The phone should only be used to set up a date, especially when you first get it
-Don't ask for things that you should feel and that should come naturally like kisses, bjs, or sex
-Don't go out of your way to do or get things for her
-Don't ask if she likes you or if she is attracted to you, you should be able to tell things like that from her body language and what she says.
-Don't let things like initiating kino, conversations, or setting up date/getting number up to her. Be a man, If she asks for yours, tell her you're really busy and aren't home much, and that she should give you hers so you could make sure you can set something up.
-Be mysterious, if she asks you alot of questions, give somewhat vague answers or ones that allude to something. Don't overdo it though, as chicks may eventually get tired of it.
-Don't think of any girl as the "girl of your dreams" "perfect 10" or "most beautiful girl I've ever seen" and other titles that would hinder your ability as a dj. Just try to relax and remember shes really just another girl that does everything you do, even burp/fart in public. If you must, try to get the mentality you get when talking to a sister, aunt, your mother, or any female relative.
-Don't get caught up talking about your interests, things you like to do, what happened to you last night unless she asks. Keep the conversation going by talking about her, her hopes and dreams, most exciting thing she's ever done or seen.
-Lastly write down or remember mistakes made in conversations, on dates, or while touching/kissing/etc... So you can improve and not let history repeat itself