"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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MacAvoy

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I had no idea that the level of AFC on the board has gone down hill so much that experienced members are giving AFC advice. I came across someone who's been here since 2003 who is giving the biggest AFC advice.


Krassus said:
I read both threads. Why the hell did you break up with her? You had a problem with her drinking, and she said she'd stop, for you. That's the best response you could have expected. Tell her you've decided to give her one more chance because you care about her, and take her back. She'll never forget how precious you are and you're gonna have the nicest gf ever. See my post in your other thread as well. Click here for original thread / post

Krassus is trying to give JLW heck for being a DJ and telling her that he should give her another chance becuase his girl was out gettin drunk with other guys doin god knows what.

Then above all, he has the gall to tell me that I shouldn't be posting here.

Krassus said:
*smacks head* Please stop posting here, as you obviously have very little experience with this; either that, or you've learned very little from whatever experience you do have. In a relationship, you can't be this trigger-happy. It's not an ONS he's talking about. When there is a problem, then you TALK to the person and ONLY if there is absolutely no way to resolve it and no willingness to compromise from either side, only THEN do you start thinking about breaking up, IF the problem is big enough to warrant that.See thread here
His advice, to talk to her and share his feelings with here. We really need to do something about all the trolls here.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Probably away from the internet and the computer, and out doing their thing.

Remember, anyone who posts here very frequently spends WAY too much time on the computer, and not enough time outside. This forum works in a sort of opposite way to others; you're more revered if you have 30 posts in 3 years than 800 posts in a month.
 
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