"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Aesthetically, who are your Top 10 iof all time?

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Gonna have to think about mine.

Links would be fun.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Amber Heard is a good call. Johnny Depp is the only dude cool enough for her to be fair. Olivia Wilde, rather than Munn, for me.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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sophia bush
alice eve
andrea tantaros (from Fox news)

...any one of those three and I'd be a happy guy
 

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Augustus_McCrae said:
Here's a couple of "classic" aka "older" beauties.
If we're talking about older, classic beauties, I always thought Maureen O'Hara was hot, and she aged well also.

Shirley Jones, surprisingly, was very attractive when she was in her 20s, when she was doing musicals like Oklahoma, Carousel, and the Music Man.

I've never considered Audrey Hepburn sexy, but I do think she was beautiful and classy looking - an interesting phenomenon. Have you ever thought a woman was beautiful, but didn't really find her sexy?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I always thought Brooke Burke was as close to a 10 you could get, even at 43 she's a stunner.
 
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