"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Advise: Should I stay away from this girl or continue?

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mackdaddy27

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A hb 7-8, My goal, I just want to get experience for my whole PUA game.

Shes just really forward , calls me a lot , and even set up our first meeting which has yet to happen.

Recently she started to call every day..
Since dating is pretty new to me, I am kinda un sure whether I need to be caution or this is somewhat normal behavior
This is only after 1-2 weeks of know ing her:
here is an example of what I mean: ( basically pulling a move out of Style's book)
* Yesterday, I called her and said "hey its 10 mins before my bedtime, if you want to talk now , call me in the next minute, or you'll get a call whenever I feel like it"
I goto bed. She called me 3 X that night ! ( I missed all calls) Then she called me at 7 PM the next day to say " hey listen, i didn't want to call you so late your miss your bedtime..."


too accomdating too adjusting for me ?


NOW If I have sxx with this girl, the only thing I really want, will she turn into a stalker ? Because I plan to break it off after the ish goes down.
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You seem to be handling her pretty well. What you do after you have sxx is to start acting AFC. Then she'll run.
 
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mackdaddy27 said:
shyt you are good man, really good. but

if I become an AFC and she doesn't run away ? !
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Well, what you should really do is be an honest man and just dump her like the dirty slut she is.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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