"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Advise: Should I stay away from this girl or continue?

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mackdaddy27

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A hb 7-8, My goal, I just want to get experience for my whole PUA game.

Shes just really forward , calls me a lot , and even set up our first meeting which has yet to happen.

Recently she started to call every day..
Since dating is pretty new to me, I am kinda un sure whether I need to be caution or this is somewhat normal behavior
This is only after 1-2 weeks of know ing her:
here is an example of what I mean: ( basically pulling a move out of Style's book)
* Yesterday, I called her and said "hey its 10 mins before my bedtime, if you want to talk now , call me in the next minute, or you'll get a call whenever I feel like it"
I goto bed. She called me 3 X that night ! ( I missed all calls) Then she called me at 7 PM the next day to say " hey listen, i didn't want to call you so late your miss your bedtime..."


too accomdating too adjusting for me ?


NOW If I have sxx with this girl, the only thing I really want, will she turn into a stalker ? Because I plan to break it off after the ish goes down.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You seem to be handling her pretty well. What you do after you have sxx is to start acting AFC. Then she'll run.
 
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mackdaddy27 said:
shyt you are good man, really good. but

if I become an AFC and she doesn't run away ? !
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Well, what you should really do is be an honest man and just dump her like the dirty slut she is.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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