"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Advise on spinning plates

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Jean Valjean

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This is a general question on spinning plates. I have 3 plates I'm trying to spin now. They are different gf material. Is it okay to keep a very 3rd rate plate until something better shows up if I acknowledge that she is 3rd rate gf material and detach myself emotionally from her. She is pretty and great for kissing and dancing but not much else, too prudish to go any further then just some make out sessions.

I think not all plates can be first rate. My strategy would be detach any feelings for her, tell her we're just friends and try to make her go dutch of just do cheap dates. I am never hitting a HR here so do not want to expend myself financially or emotionally that I would on a 1st rate plate that might put out.

What do you do with diffferent quality plates.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Andy_Dufresne

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Jean Valjean said:
I am never hitting a HR here so do not want to expend myself financially or emotionally that I would on a 1st rate plate that might put out.
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So you treat the ones that "put out" better than the ones that don't?

That's playing into the matrix, don't you think?

Why not treat them all the same, enjoy yourself, and not be so focused on the poon? Remember, respect is all.
 
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