"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

Advise on spinning plates

J

Jean Valjean

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 2, 2009
Messages
140
Reaction score
8
This is a general question on spinning plates. I have 3 plates I'm trying to spin now. They are different gf material. Is it okay to keep a very 3rd rate plate until something better shows up if I acknowledge that she is 3rd rate gf material and detach myself emotionally from her. She is pretty and great for kissing and dancing but not much else, too prudish to go any further then just some make out sessions.

I think not all plates can be first rate. My strategy would be detach any feelings for her, tell her we're just friends and try to make her go dutch of just do cheap dates. I am never hitting a HR here so do not want to expend myself financially or emotionally that I would on a 1st rate plate that might put out.

What do you do with diffferent quality plates.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

A

Andy_Dufresne

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 18, 2008
Messages
222
Reaction score
10
Location
NorthEast
Jean Valjean said:
I am never hitting a HR here so do not want to expend myself financially or emotionally that I would on a 1st rate plate that might put out.
Click to expand...
So you treat the ones that "put out" better than the ones that don't?

That's playing into the matrix, don't you think?

Why not treat them all the same, enjoy yourself, and not be so focused on the poon? Remember, respect is all.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top