"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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bmjc

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Hey forum,
I need some advice. It started 6 days ago. I was at the mall with my female friend Holly to enhance my game. And i ended up getting this Amanda chick's number. shes easily a 9.5 . After the usual 2 days to call, and a quick 4 minute phone convo, she has invited me over to her house for the afternoon, alone. This is where i *always* screw up. Im new to the game. ive put my skill with this sites skill and have done fairly well but the first dates never go over too well. i get the number, date, no issues. Any advice would be kool. ive been super busy with work and all.. its really down to a couple hours. Again, any advice from an experienced DJ would be awesome, maybe things youve tried on the first date, or things not to do. Im open for anything at this point. thanx DJs
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SickAgain

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Try your best to fvck her. Why else would she invite you to her place instead of going out? Be smooth about it. If you find yourself in her bedroom on her bed at anytime, you're golden.
 
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Dilberto

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bump
 
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Randallpink83

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uhh yeah dude... this isnt a "DATE"... I'm assuming you're younger.. (15ish)

but this is a... well booty call in a sense

at the very least your gonna get a nice toungue down. Just bust a move. Dont get stuck in a NICE GUY hangout zone. Bust a move...

hell if shes just inviting you over like that, its gonna be easier then you think.

Have fun!
 
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kdnash82

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Pay attention to the way she's acting. If she's playing with her hair, touching you a lot, sitting very close to you, open posed, then she's into you.

Remain cool. Hang out. I wouldn't just go in for the kill without building up to it. Don't sit there thinking about sex. Have fun. At some point, I would in the very least go for a kiss if things are going well. If she responds well, then escalate a little more. SLOWLY!!! Continue to escalate until you get what you want.

Let us know how it went.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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smooth guy

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And don't go over thinking your every move and worrying of the outcome.

And don't worry if you fail. Every time you fail you gain experience and learn from your mistakes. Even failure is better than none
 
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