"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Advise ASAP Plz

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bmjc

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Hey forum,
I need some advice. It started 6 days ago. I was at the mall with my female friend Holly to enhance my game. And i ended up getting this Amanda chick's number. shes easily a 9.5 . After the usual 2 days to call, and a quick 4 minute phone convo, she has invited me over to her house for the afternoon, alone. This is where i *always* screw up. Im new to the game. ive put my skill with this sites skill and have done fairly well but the first dates never go over too well. i get the number, date, no issues. Any advice would be kool. ive been super busy with work and all.. its really down to a couple hours. Again, any advice from an experienced DJ would be awesome, maybe things youve tried on the first date, or things not to do. Im open for anything at this point. thanx DJs
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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SickAgain

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Try your best to fvck her. Why else would she invite you to her place instead of going out? Be smooth about it. If you find yourself in her bedroom on her bed at anytime, you're golden.
 
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Dilberto

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bump
 
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Randallpink83

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uhh yeah dude... this isnt a "DATE"... I'm assuming you're younger.. (15ish)

but this is a... well booty call in a sense

at the very least your gonna get a nice toungue down. Just bust a move. Dont get stuck in a NICE GUY hangout zone. Bust a move...

hell if shes just inviting you over like that, its gonna be easier then you think.

Have fun!
 
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kdnash82

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Pay attention to the way she's acting. If she's playing with her hair, touching you a lot, sitting very close to you, open posed, then she's into you.

Remain cool. Hang out. I wouldn't just go in for the kill without building up to it. Don't sit there thinking about sex. Have fun. At some point, I would in the very least go for a kiss if things are going well. If she responds well, then escalate a little more. SLOWLY!!! Continue to escalate until you get what you want.

Let us know how it went.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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smooth guy

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And don't go over thinking your every move and worrying of the outcome.

And don't worry if you fail. Every time you fail you gain experience and learn from your mistakes. Even failure is better than none
 
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