Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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cmaff05

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Re: No offense but....

Originally posted by DJ_in_making
You sound like one of those guys that would bang another guy and say you're just bi-curious. No offense but that's what I'm getting, if its not true never mind..
No offense, but you sound like a closet homo who's afraid of coming out, and instead badmouths anybody who doesn't share your view.

Anyways...
I wouldn't have a problem banging a chick with another guy in the room doing the same thing.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Kerm

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Lol, that sh!t is pretty off base. Don't get me wrong, i'd be pretty uncomfortable if i was to touch another naked man while i was bangin a chick. That sh!t is off limits for sure. But simply being in the presence of another naked man really isn't a big deal man.

And for the record, no i would never, nor i have ever considered experimenting with another man.
 

DJ_in_making

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Re: Re: No offense but....

Originally posted by cmaff05
No offense, but you sound like a closet homo who's afraid of coming out, and instead badmouths anybody who doesn't share your view.

Anyways...
I wouldn't have a problem banging a chick with another guy in the room doing the same thing.
No offense taken. I wasn't badmouthing anyone, if you took time and read the posts you would know that. But you're new to the message boards I guess, you'll learn....
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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bigshovel

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Well, I went through with it

It was kind of strange, not that the guy was there, but this guy just didn't want to watch, he is a real submissive.

The girl tied him to a chair and started talking all kinds of crao to him slapping and spitting on him, pretty much humiliating the dude.

Me and her got at it, the sex was so-so, but she has one hell of a body. I think the sex would have been much better, but she kept talking shlt to her husband while we were doing it, saying thing like "You like watching him fvck your wife? "Do you ya bltch?"

It was a little too Hustler reader's letter for me.

Both of them asked me if I was interested in doing it again, and they told me they have other friends into swinging.

I may entertain it to see what else these swingers have to offer.

P.S.

Dude was fully cloth, he was a real submissive, she told him he isn't allowed to jerk off when they get home either
 
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