"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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cmaff05

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Re: No offense but....

Originally posted by DJ_in_making
You sound like one of those guys that would bang another guy and say you're just bi-curious. No offense but that's what I'm getting, if its not true never mind..
No offense, but you sound like a closet homo who's afraid of coming out, and instead badmouths anybody who doesn't share your view.

Anyways...
I wouldn't have a problem banging a chick with another guy in the room doing the same thing.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Kerm

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Lol, that sh!t is pretty off base. Don't get me wrong, i'd be pretty uncomfortable if i was to touch another naked man while i was bangin a chick. That sh!t is off limits for sure. But simply being in the presence of another naked man really isn't a big deal man.

And for the record, no i would never, nor i have ever considered experimenting with another man.
 

DJ_in_making

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Re: Re: No offense but....

Originally posted by cmaff05
No offense, but you sound like a closet homo who's afraid of coming out, and instead badmouths anybody who doesn't share your view.

Anyways...
I wouldn't have a problem banging a chick with another guy in the room doing the same thing.
No offense taken. I wasn't badmouthing anyone, if you took time and read the posts you would know that. But you're new to the message boards I guess, you'll learn....
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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bigshovel

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Well, I went through with it

It was kind of strange, not that the guy was there, but this guy just didn't want to watch, he is a real submissive.

The girl tied him to a chair and started talking all kinds of crao to him slapping and spitting on him, pretty much humiliating the dude.

Me and her got at it, the sex was so-so, but she has one hell of a body. I think the sex would have been much better, but she kept talking shlt to her husband while we were doing it, saying thing like "You like watching him fvck your wife? "Do you ya bltch?"

It was a little too Hustler reader's letter for me.

Both of them asked me if I was interested in doing it again, and they told me they have other friends into swinging.

I may entertain it to see what else these swingers have to offer.

P.S.

Dude was fully cloth, he was a real submissive, she told him he isn't allowed to jerk off when they get home either
 
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