"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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babysfirstcoffin

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Here's the deal, My girlfriend and I had a mutual breakup on our 6month. It's super obvious that she still wants me, and i still want her. I've been trying to distract myself by flirting with every other girl in existance, but I can never really get my mind off of her. We hung out yesterday, for the first time after breaking up, and I ended up kissing her when I left, and she thanked me for it.

Here is my plan, I'm going to re-ask her out but this time with specific guidelines so I'm getting exactly what I want. If she agrees then I guess I'll be happy, but if she doesn't, I'll have to suck it up.

Are there any other obvious solutions to my little ordeal that i'm totally missing?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DJ Hawtness

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If you're really confident in wanting a relationship with your ex, then what are you doing at your computer...go talk to her man.

Just be aware that it's kind of hard to pick off where you two left, so just go slow.
 
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Maeisgood

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Be careful with the dead baby humour, a big turn off for girls.
 
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