"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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babysfirstcoffin

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Here's the deal, My girlfriend and I had a mutual breakup on our 6month. It's super obvious that she still wants me, and i still want her. I've been trying to distract myself by flirting with every other girl in existance, but I can never really get my mind off of her. We hung out yesterday, for the first time after breaking up, and I ended up kissing her when I left, and she thanked me for it.

Here is my plan, I'm going to re-ask her out but this time with specific guidelines so I'm getting exactly what I want. If she agrees then I guess I'll be happy, but if she doesn't, I'll have to suck it up.

Are there any other obvious solutions to my little ordeal that i'm totally missing?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DJ Hawtness

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If you're really confident in wanting a relationship with your ex, then what are you doing at your computer...go talk to her man.

Just be aware that it's kind of hard to pick off where you two left, so just go slow.
 
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Be careful with the dead baby humour, a big turn off for girls.
 
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