"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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I am under the influence of oneitis, happens to everyone. I'm currently confused and would like your guys imput. Its been like a mounth and have got a few makeouts. Not so bad. I have deep rapport which is nice so I can talk to her about anything. Yesterday she said she feels like the dork in "Shes all that" and im the cool guy. She said that she feels she isn't good enough for me. She's crazy LSE and says I deserve better. Its like she doesn't like me but she does alot. I know I shound like a AFC but how do you deal with that? I'm baffeled.

Vincent? Matrix? Crazykid? BBB?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The old "Your too good for me" generally means she isn't interested in having a relationship with you.
 
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Did she just start saying you deserve better? or has she been saying it since the beginning? caus if she just started saying it, i'd regauge her LOI caus thats not a very good sign.

You said you have oneitis...maybe you shouldn't be talking to her then?iuno how bad it is...
leave this one for the real DJs..i'm not there yet :-/
 
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I'm the first guy she has ever done anything with. I get all the IOI's, but we go to different schools. Shes the shy hot dork and apparently I come off very confident. She said I have more confidence then her and 4 of her friends combined. So that throws me, but she is clearly attracted. I dunno.
 
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